Carols was married for 4 years and father of a son. His partner decided to leave him because she found someone else. He worked really hard to raise his family but at the end all was gone.
He decided not to go for any other realtionship because he was heart broken and wanted to understand life. He started to visit church every Sunday & slowly found answers of his suffering.
He found that he was afraid of loneliness and always went into a realtionship because of this fear.
For few years, he worked on his job & spent time with his son.
Now , there was a new fear, fear of getting hurt so he could not open his heart to anyone else. His family started to push him to find someone else but he was happy the way life was. He did not want to lose his balance.
After few years of being alone and full of happiness , contentment & self love he decided to go for a relationship. This time he was ready to find the right person or in other words, he decided to date untill he finds the perfect/right person.
He met a beautfiful woman and found excellent chemistry with her. Long story short, they fell into love and started a wonderful relationship. This woman really did love him but she used to get little insecure and jealous because of Carlo’s attitude towards life. He was not clingy and was not afraid of losing her.
There was time when she tried to control him on seeing other people or women friends which resulted Carlos to feel stuck so there were few moments when he walked away from her but as said earlier, she did love him so much so she decied to put her pride aside and decided to stop Carlos all the time.
There was time when Carlos controlled her knowingly and unknowingly. Basically, both got trapped by ego drama but they did not know about it.
The worse thing happened in this story was “Carlos’s walking away ( few times) caused serious wounds in the relationship because it affected his partner’s self esteem. She started to suffer more because she had to stop him all the time. Carlos did not realize this because he was seeing everything with eyes of detachment. All that spiritual knowledge made an impression on his soul that he really did not need anyone in his life. ”
One day, woman decided to leave him and Carlos did not try to stop her because he thought he would be fine. He confused self love , all the spirtual knowledge ( deatchment, living alone, we came alone so going back alone) with the reality that don’t give up on True LOVE.
Carlos started to suffer again because after few days he felt alone, all those sweet memories started to haunt him and he got lost again and this time he was hurt badly because he lost True LOVE because of his own misunderstanding on spiritual knwoledge.
He wants her back and he is still suffering. I heard this story and then asked his permission to share with all of you.
Do send your praryer to Carlos and all the Souls like him who are confused but they don’t know about it
Carlos said ” Create a relationship which is based on fixing not walking away when you don’t like things in your way”